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Warning Signs

If your single check this out! If your not, I believe you are in a lot of mess!

1. If your parents or siblings have doubts about him, pay attention.
Listen and check it
out.
2. If your intended has nothing good to say about his ex, beware. This
is a pattern.
Divorce is rarely only one person’s fault.
3. If his children have nothing to do with him, do not believe him if
he says his ex
brainwashed them against him. My stepchildren have told me it was
because they hated him,
and they have good reasons.
4. Look closely at his credit and job history. They are sure predictors
of what your life
will be like.
5. If he’s over 30 and has no money, do not let him move in with you,
and don’t marry him
until he’s financially solvent. If he has any respect for you (and
himself), he’ll insist
on it.
6. Be sure in your heart that you can live with him AS IS. You cannot
change another
person.
7. This is a biggie: Beware if he has no friends. It is not true that
they all chose to
side with his ex.
8. If your friends dislike him, pay attention. This is also true if he
hates your
friends.
9. If he has more than one DUI and still drinks, run!
10. If he is one personality at work or with others and another person
alone with you,
run.
11. If he has nothing to do with his parents, investigate why. Don’t
take his word for
it.
12. If he’s an expert at everything and brags a lot, understand that he
will turn off a
lot of people, eventually maybe even you.
13. If he has sexual problems, go with him to a doctor before you marry
him. Believe me,
his problem will become your problem.
14. If he is emotionally or verbally abusive, it will only get worse.
Yelling,
name-calling and glowering are classic signs of an abuser.
15. If he is never wrong and never apologizes, everything will be "your
fault" forever.
And after years of hearing it, you may even start to accept the blame.
16. If he does something wrong and says, "That wouldn’t have happened
if you hadn’t (fill
in the blank)," that’s another sign of an abuser.
17. And if he’s mean to children, pets, or animals, recognize that he’s
pathological, and
the next victim could be you.

Love, Life and question it all the time!

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